Friday, September 30, 2005
The update
Tuesday was, of course, a workday. My heart wasn't in it. I remember getting stuff done. I remember talking to people...I think maybe I worked with Freida. Or maybe it was Katie. I don't know.
Tuesday Night - Taught a class at the store. Drama rehearsal. Now is the time when I'll mention that the drama for this last weekend involved me giving another girl CPR on stage. Including mouth-to-mouth. Not only did this make for interesting rehearsals for the rest of the week, but I'm fairly sure she and I will both suffer from ulcers in the future due to the excessive nature in which we consumed breath mints all week. Good thing Allison and I get along well.
Wednesday - more work.
Wednesday Night - took 4 kids to AWANA. That's always fun.
Thursday - kids. Lots of them. Not as many in the morning, but by dinner they multiply exponentially.
Thursday Night - New Community. Good. Sad. Dr. Bob was awesome, as usual. Jason rocked, as usual. More drama rehearsal after the service. Not great. Tense. Emotional. Awkward. Difficult. Aggrivating. I love drama, but that was probably the hardest rehearsal I've ever had.
Friday - Worked on a scrapbook project for a little bit. Messed around. Ran errands.
Friday Night - Worked. Late. Got in bed around 3-ish. Adam had cleaned the house - now that's a nice surprise to come home to.
Saturday - Slept in. Drama rehearsal.
Saturday Night - Two services. Did mouth-to-mouth on Allison if front of about 1700 people. The service was about loss and lonliness - very appropriate timing. Heard there was quite a response to the arts/message package. In the drama, my attempts at CPR are unsucessful and "Brittany" dies, with her mom by her side. Mark talked about the pain of losing a child, whether it be through miscarriage, abortion, or whatever, and what that does to a parent. Apparently several women were impacted enough by this that they had to leave the service for a while. It's amazing to be a part of something that was so meaningful, and hopefully helpful, to even a handful of people. Kind of explains why rehearsals were so rough this week, huh? After last service, met friends at Pablo's (in my make-up - now THAT was funny!) and then hung out at Starbucks until 1:30am. Not smart.
Sunday - To church by 7:30 to reapply make-up, etc. Three services. More mouth-to-mouth. Added bonus: Allison started using lip gloss! Took a cast picture - all of us with our "wounds" and torn up clothes. Hopefully I'll have that to share with you soon. Short nap. Hang out with kids.
Sunday Night - Take kids to Lifeline (childcare) so I can go tape week 4's drama in the Stevens' backyard. To sum this up without giving too much away - hot fire, to which we had to sit too close; rain; running; screaming; more rain; falling and screaming while soaking wet. It was a great night - 5.5 hours (for me - some were there longer) of taping...in the dark, in the rain.
Monday - Beginning of ICC week - will see Adam again next Monday. Yes, he's in town, but let's just say that he's got an air matress at work this week, "just in case." Seriously. Get kids off to school, ran to work to get tomorrow's class supplies, pick Abby up, prep for class. Jacob home, homework done, haircut and bath (for him).
Monday Night - Katie came over to watch FOUR KIDS so Jacob and I could go to Goshen and film a TV commercial with some drama friends. It was WAY fun - and Jacob is totally geeked about the possibility of seeing himself on TV. Home around 9. Prepped for class until 1:30am.
Tuesday - Work.
Tuesday Night - Taught my class at the store.
Wednesday - Work.
Wednesday Night - Kids to AWANA. Start to memorize this weekend's script - a monologue. And not a short one, either.
Thursday - Kids. Drama script.
Thursday Night - New Community - met Charlie Hall (way cool!) who led worship. Quite the gotee he's got going on there. Learned an awesome new (to me) worship song..."Wanna go where You go, love what You love..." About 3/4 of the way through the service I realized that I FORGOT to tape the season premiere of ALIAS, which I've only been waiting to see for about four months!! I'm in AGONY over this - I haven't been able to locate a single person who taped last night's episode! Come on - anyone??
Friday - Got Jacob up for the bus, got Abby up and dressed, drove over to Debbie Mann's for a little trim (man, I hate growing my hair out!!) and now here I am. Consider yourself caught up!
Thursday, September 29, 2005
I NEED YOUR HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DID YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW TAPE THE SEASON PREMIERE OF ALIAS TONIGHT??!? I am beyond desperate. Please. Help a girl out here. Please?
Tuesday, September 20, 2005
Life
One of the most moving moments for me was before the service even started. We were standing in the entryway of the church as people were beginning to arrive. At one point I turned toward the door in time to see about a dozen of our closest GCC friends heading toward us...The look on Adam's face when he saw them is one that I will never forget. If there had ever been doubt as to why we feel so strongly about our church family, they were answered in that moment. (Of course, had anyone suspected that we actually belonged to some strange cult, those suspicions were probably also confirmed as 6 of the 12 people have their heads shaved...) I have never been more proud (and humbled at the same time) to call GCC home.
Later last night, after returning home from Holland, Adam and I received the absolutely shocking and devastating news that Doug Coney died last night of a heart attack. Doug and Adam have worked closely together at GCC for I-don't-know-how-many years and we consider the Coneys our good friends. Our hearts are breaking for that family right now - Leslie, Peyton, and Dalton, and their extended family. Please join me in keeping them in your prayers today.
Jesus - I often don't understand why things happen they way they do. That's no surprise to you as we've talked about that before. I do, however, trust you and your sovereignty. Please help me to remember the Irelands and the Coneys today - two families who desperately need strength from you to make it through today as their hearts are utterly broken. Please make your presence known to them today. Hold them as only you can, and make us available to them in whatever way we might be needed. Remind all of us that you are, in fact, in control and that you know that plans you have for all of us. We love you. I love you. I need you, today and everyday. AMEN
Sunday, September 18, 2005
Wednesday, September 14, 2005
Tuesday, September 13, 2005
Five Random Things About Myself
2. I like to eat. A lot. I get really excited about eating certain things, too, like favorite foods or meals at certain restaurants. Food is my friend.
3. I didn't know my first name when I went to kindergarten. My first name is really Allison. There, I said it. I am Allison Rebekah (Holt) Callender. My parents have called me Becky as long as I can remember, and not only that, but they failed to fully explain to me that my name was really Allison. My kindergarten teacher called "Allison" for morning attendance for a week before she figured out that she needed to talk to my mom. Thanks for that.
4. I've had more than 10 traffic citations. Most of them for speeding, one for seatbelt non-use, one for turning left in a no-left-turn, and the others...I do not recall. I've lost count. I'm not proud of it. I do have opinions regarding the constitutionality of setting speed limits that I will not get into right now. Clearly I have issues with authority. I'm working on it.
5. I am fairly particular about my bedsheets. I actually don't usually make the bed until right before I get into it. I straighten the sheets and comforter, even them out and pull them up to the headboard. Then I fold them over and climb in. At no time should the comforter touch my face - only the sheets. It's not an absolute freakish obsession - just a very strong preference.
Ok - so there are some things you probably never wanted to know about me. Now it's your turn...
Monday, September 12, 2005
BIG NEWS!
Clarification...
Before things go too far, however, just let me clarify that my sister is an expert in digital photo editing. If you happen to see something on her site, or anywhere else, that casts an unflattering light in my general direction, you should immediately assume that the photo is doctored and completely false.
Sunday, September 11, 2005
the cool sister
i'm hanging out at the callender home. i was asked to babysit this evening so the 'adults' (becky, adam, tammy and daryl) could go out at play. dinner and a movie i believe. so, i had the kids. only abby and jacob. i mean seriously, we all know that i am not nearly qualified to handle any more than two, i mean it's questionable with the two, but at least abby and jacob are, for the most part, perfectly fine on their own. for example...
becky mentioned that abby needed to take a bath before she left. i thought, fair enough, so i start running the water. as abby is sitting in the tub (only about five inches deep at this point) i say, "is that deep enough?" and i get this look in return like, "you boob, i'm not one." which, she's right, she's four now and knows more about a four year old in a bath tub than i probably ever will. so, then she tells me that she likes to have the water all the way to the top and i just looked at her like, "i'm not falling for that one." she won.
second example...
jacob, after eating his sandwich and whatever else my sister fed to him at the table, tells me he's still hungry. fair enough, i go to the cupboard. i say, "how bout some fruit snacks?" he says, no. "okay, how bout some of these cracker things..." he says, 'those are only for school lunches.' then he points to a box of pop tarts and says, i'll have one of those. to which i respond, 'okay, do you normally eat those? i mean, you're not allergic to them are you?" again i got the, "you boob" look. he ROLLED HIS EYES and said, 'no, i eat those for breakfast.' it reminded me of those cheesy movie lines where someone is threatening someone else and says, "i eat those for breakfast," as if to imply that the task is meaningless. my six year old nephew is dishing out movie lines to me faster than i can read ingredients on a pop tart box.
THIRD example...like you really need another
it's bed time and becky told me that jacob needed to read before he went to bed, for close to 20 minutes. this was near physically painful. jacob is a great reader, far beyond what a normal first grader would be reading, however i was prepared to read a book about a cat jumping in the yard or jack and jill or something. jacob picks out...star wars! i've never seen star wars but i'm beginning to loathe it with every part of my being. so, while other kids in his class are reading jack and jill ran up the hill. my nephew is reading something about separtists? does that sound right? i don't even know! and battles and ships and something with someone named dooku? it's like jacob is studying greek for all i know.
so, if you haven't learned this by now, i am NOT qualified to be watching these children. i remember back to the day when i was nanny in college. i took care of four kids. my typical day was taking care of a four year old and six year old while doing the laundry, stripping the beds, vacuuming every bit of carpet in the house, feeding the frogs, watching the dogs, doing the dishes, making lunch and then helping the older kids with their homework when they got home... and that was all in a days work after a morning of classes and exams. it's like the minute they handed me my diploma they were saying, "congratulations, everything you just learn is WORTHLESS! good luck paying off the student loans."
and with that novel, i shall call it a night. i have to hang out here until the old folks return. however, i cannot be posting on beckys blog and not write funny stories about her...just a couple brief ones... :) life is good.
when becky worked at the bank and would come home and i wouldn't give her the remote, she would tackle me to the ground IN HER HEELS to get it away from me.
ask her about the, "but won't they fly away" when my dad said that we were driving past and egret farm in florida.
becky used to have her whole room plastered with posters of george michael, barf.
sadly, that's all i've got for now but you better believe that if i knew where all her pictures were you'd be seeing some great ones. i'll post some on my blog in the near future. it's fabulous being the evil sister... i'll be thinking about more... until next time
k
Thursday, September 8, 2005
On my night stand

"When I was a little girl, I used to love World War II movies. I imagined myself being in them. I dreamed of growing up, braiding my hair, and then tucking it up under my helmet. I planned to disguise my gender so that I could join in. I sensed that the men in these movies were part of something heroic, valiant, and worthy. I longed to be a part of it too. In the depths of my soul, I longed to be a part of something large and good; something that required all of me; something dangerous and worth dying for.
There is something dangerous in the heart of a woman. Simply insult her children, her man, or her best friend and you'll get a taste of it. A woman is a warrior too. But she is meant to be a warrior in a uniquely feminine way. Sometime before the sorrows of life did their best to kill it in us, most young women wanted to be a part of something grand, something important. Before doubt and accusation take hold, most little girls sense that they have a vital role to play; they want to believe there is something in them that is needed and needed desperately."
Wednesday, September 7, 2005
I'm getting a quality education here...
Tonight was parents night at Jacob's school. FINALLY...questions answered. Gym shoes? Yes. Study means spell (board words)...unless it means read (step words). H.L. stands for Home Link. Mrs. Ziege was Ms. Eckerly (that clears up a lot of confusion). Kids count using something called touchpoints now instead of using their fingers so they don't have to put down their pencils. Who'd have guessed? We were encouraged to "power-read" with our kids. I have a handout I'm supposed to read that explains what power-reading is. How have I made it 32 years without knowing that?!?
So, mom, I'm not feeling so bad. I didn't have to ask a single question at parents night tonight - not because I knew all the answers. It was because every single one of my questions was asked by other parents in the room. Apparently I wasn't the only naive parent there!
btw - I overheard my preschooler tonight counting patches on her AWANA vest...in SPANISH! She made it to ten with no mistakes. I'm confident I will have much more to learn by the time she reaches 1st grade!
Tuesday, September 6, 2005

I decoupaged the letters and the wood blocks with Sweetwater papers and cardstock letters. I distressed the blocks - they look pretty cool IRL. I've started the blocks for Jacob's room, but not the big letters - they take forever!
Anyway, later in the evening Adam and I went out for our date night - we ate a one of the scariest chinese restaurants I've ever seen (I'm quite sure I spotted several blatant health code violations, and I don't even know what any are!) and then we went to the dollar theatre and caught Crash. It was pretty wild - I don't remember seeing many advertisements for it, and it definitely isn't a "feel good" kind of movie - but definitely thought-provoking and worth seeing, in my opinion. It's paradigm-shifting. It's rated R for good reason, so don't go taking your kids to see it (like the family sitting in front of us), but if you can handle a fair amount of cussing, some nudity, a little violence, and some other quality movie material, I recommend it highly. If you decide to see the movie and it offends you in any way, don't come crying to me about it - I gave you fair warning!
Sunday, September 4, 2005
Change of plans
The drama I was scheduled to be in this weekend was cancelled. The pastor, Mark Beeson, decided to go another direction with the "sermon" in light of hurricane Katrina. A few thoughts might pop into your head at this particular moment:
- Bummer - I was really looking forward to a funny Jeopardy-parody-type drama.
- Wow - that really stinks, in light of all the hard work, time, effort and energy Becky put into getting ready for this weekend.
- They couldn't have figured that out earlier in the week? I mean, after all, the hurricane happened on Monday!
- Who gives a rip?? Drama's for losers!
Ok, no matter if you fall into one of those categories or not, here's what you need to know:
I am SO proud of my church! I can't believe how lucky I am to be a part of a huge body of believers that feels strongly enough about the suffering of other people that we actually take time out of our regular lives to acknowledge that something is happening out there that is bigger than us. I can't believe that I get to say that MY church partnered with Feed the Children and sent scores of semi-trucks full of food and supplies to the survivors of the hurricane before the week was even out! I'm proud that we are a church that practices what is preached - that we don't "play" church - we ARE the church, and when something like this happens - whether it's here in the U.S. or on the other side of the world - we DO something about it. I can't believe that I get to be a part of something like that!
Friday, September 2, 2005
I'm in a drama at GCC this weekend - it should be pretty funny. Come and check out a service if you're in the area - I don't think you'll be dissappointed!
Thursday, September 1, 2005
Scrapbooking Thursday
ps. I'm also going to throw some of my layouts from earlier this year on here now that I've gotten them back from being displayed at the store. Enjoy!
One more thing...

Kenny. No, not the one in the middle. Not the littler ones one either side...yeah, that's him - the tiny little spot on the stage that looks like an ant wearing a cowboy hat! Good thing for those screens or all we'd have had to look at would have been all the swooning, drunk, redneck women surrounding us on all sides...
Ok, so I'm receiving harassing emails regarding the blatant neglect of my blog. My apologies. Things have been a little busy around here. Let's see...since last Thursday:
- Friday I went to the Kenny Chesney concert in Indy with a few of my friends from work. It was great, even if we couldn't quite see who it was that was actually on stage without the assistance of the very large projection screens on either side of the pavillion. Gretchen Wilson opened - it was pretty cool (despite the fact that we sat STILL in the parking lot for at least an hour waiting for traffic to make it's way out, then drove ALL THE WAY home to SB, arriving at 3am, and that I lost a contact lens at the concert and drove with one hand over my left eye the majority of the way home so I could track the lane lines...)
- Saturday I took a little nap (big surprise, right?) and hung out at home with the kids.
- Sunday we went to church and cleaned up around the house. That takes a lot longer than it sounds.
- Monday I helped out in the lunch room at Jacob's school - now that's an educational experience! First graders being responsible for their own lunches is a pretty entertaining thing. Took Abby to the eye doctor in the afternoon (she loves Dr. Tom and watching Nemo while he checks her eyes!) and then made a quick trip to Walmart. Always a great time. Put the kids bunk beds back together - an experiment in parental patience and sanity. I'll have to let you know how that goes.
- Tuesday I went back to work - did more rearranging, stocking, pricing, cashiering, etc. The usual. Filled my gas tank @ $2.79 a gallon, which now looks like a real bargain, and then went to drama rehearsal - about 2 hours of solid, non-stock laughter. Butch Whitmire is one of the all time funniest people I've ever had the pleasure of meeting - and Aaron and Mark are pretty stickin funny in their own right, so I spent most of rehearsal laughing rather than saying my lines. (Sorry Kristin!)
- Wednesday was another work day, more of the same. Moved more displays than I have any desire to ever do again, and basically wore out my deordorant by noon. It was a great, manual labor kind of a day. From work I went home, had some dinner and watched coverage of the chaos in New Orleans before picking the kids up from Awana. Brought them home, put them to bed and waited for Adam to get home from work so I could head back in to work for the late-night stocking shift. Anne and I made some serious progress from 10pm-3am - no customers to harass us while we're trying to get stuff done. Anne, we're going to need to talk about that music selection though...next time, it's MY turn to provide the cds!
There you have it - you are now caught up with the Callenders. At least with me. And a little bit with the kids. If you see Adam, let me know what he's up to, okay? I might run into him tonight between church and drama rehearsal...and then again on Friday before I go to work, maybe. I should see him on Saturday...of course, he'll be working, and I'll be drama-ing. Oh well, maybe next week!












